Sunday, May 27, 2012

Mississippi Team Day 2

Today the team came and experienced our local church. We all enjoyed worshiping together and then had a local minister to the Gay and Lesbian community speak during our Sunday school hour. This was to prepare us for our afternoon excursion. This was a very informative and well done time. We were all incredibly blessed by his testimony, information on how to reach out to this community and ways to pray. If you are interested in having him come and share at your church I would be happy to get you his information. Just message me. 

During our second hour at church a group taught our 1st and 2nd graders about God creating everything. They did a fantastic job! It was such a blessing to our pastors wife who has not been able to attend a full worship service in a year.



After a great BBQ chicken fundraiser (put on by our youth!!) we headed off to the SF Castro district. It was a new experience for all of us. During our time there we were able to meet a few people and pray over many different buildings. Our local minister shared with us that the average time it takes to work with a homosexual person before they are ready to talk about the sin aspect is 18 months of trust building. We pray we were a loving example of Christ to all we came in contact with.

A few people you can pray for that my group met are Jeff, Joe, and the woman with the striped socks.

We also drove around  to a few different places of specific spiritual strongholds in this area.

The Castro Theater

Magnet does HIV/AIDS testing and is a big supporter of the Gay and Lesbian community

Metropolitan Community Church: The second Homosexual accepting church in the country

After driving home we were debriefed with the local minister and enjoyed a good question an answer time. We are all challenged to love our homosexual friends with the love of Jesus; "compassion without compromise."

After all that hard work we ordered a few pizzas and enjoyed getting to know each other a little better. Again we were so blessed by the group's willingness to serve and be teachable on this hard topic.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Mississippi Team Day 1

Steve and I have had the privilege of planning a mission trip for a group of high school seniors from Batesville Mississippi and now their finally here!

They arrived safely last night (thanks to everyone who prayed for them) and began today bright and early with orientation at our house. Steve shared about the Bay area and the ways we're going to be reaching out to it's people. Our projects will be a mix of prayer, evangelism, and service this week.

After orientation we stopped for a quick group picture with the Golden Gate Bridge.

(What a good lookin' group!!)

Next we headed to the Sunset district (the Chinese part of San Francisco) for some prayer walking and lunch. On our journey we showed the students different things to look for as they passed by shops: food offerings to the ancestors, alters, lucky cats and other spiritual things. This was to target their prayer to places that were spiritually dark. At lunch we met a man named Joe (an older student at City College) that we had the chance to chat with. We told him we would be praying for him. Please partner with us and pray for Joe to have a Christian witness in his life.

On the way to our next sight we stopped for an adventurous treat at Tea Way. A local bubble milk tea store. Some people loved it some people did not. haha.



After lunch we headed to Golden gate park. Almost every person who lives in San Francisco will go through the park at least once a year so we really wanted to cover the area in prayer. In addition we brought chalk to write scripture on the sidewalk. We all felt it was a HUGE success. Many people took the time to stop and read our messages and several of us were able to engage in conversations with people. Some people we met that you can pray with us for are: Paula, Margaret, Alex, Man from Mississippi and kids, Mother and Daughter with bike, Soccer guys, and Man with five dogs. Reflecting on the idea that many of these people have never been prayed for before is crazy!


We wrapped up the day with a little In and Out Burger and headed home for an early bed time. (Jet lag has started kicking in for them.)

We could not have asked for a better group! We were so blessed and encouraged today. Can't wait to see what the Lord has in store for us tomorrow!



Thursday, May 17, 2012

Spoken Word: Salvation

This is a video of my "spoken word" poetry project for theology class detailing some of the steps in the Ordo Salutis ("Order of Salvation"). This is my first crack at spoken word, so don't be too harsh. Laura did the videography and edit work. Enjoy!

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Hymn: "Children of the Heavenly Father"

While working on my theology paper (on adoption) I came across this hymn. I wanted to share it with you and remind you of your wonderful adoptive Father!

"Children of the Heavenly Father"

Author: Caroline V Sandell Berg, C. 1855 


(This was the best video I could find of the song. 
Please ignore the maker's personal comments at the beginning and end.)

Thursday, May 10, 2012

George Mueller: Biographical Sermon


In today’s modern American society money is everything. We set up multiple savings accounts, which sit accumulating money. Once we acquire a desired salary, we seek to make more. Our houses are filled with multiple flat screen TVs and expensive furniture. We are constantly trying to keep up with the neighbors next door. The idea that Jesus presents to the rich young ruler in Mark 10:21 of selling everything you have to give to the poor is quite foreign to us. I would dare say it is repulsive. I would like suggest, however, living a life of complete faith and trust in God for all our provisions is the more enjoyable lifestyle.
I would like to share with you the story of a man who ended his life with only 160 pounds to his name.[1] I’m sure you’re thinking what kind of life could this man have had dying in clear poverty? The answer is one so extraordinary, it will, hopefully, encourage you to live a life of radical nature too.
George Mueller is this radical man with only a few hundred dollars to his name. Mueller was a missionary to Bristol England. During his time there, he touched the lives of tens of thousands of people, including over 10,000 orphans. While doing his ministry, Mueller decided to do an experiment. His experiment was to see if God would truly provide for all the needs of his family and the orphans he supported. Over the course of Mueller’s story, we shall see how the experiment faired.
George Mueller was born in Kroppenstaedt, Prussia, on September 27, 1805. This is in modern day Germany. He was especially privileged growing up except that he did not grow up in a family of believers. Therefore, Mueller did not know Christ. Ironically, even though Mueller’s father was not a believer, he sent him to school to become a clergyman. It was a way Mueller could become successful and make a good living. You might be thinking this path would help him to discover Christ. You are right, but it took quite a long time for it to sink in. During his youth, he stayed far from God. He fell into the addictive sin of stealing. He didn’t just steal little things, but large sums of government money that had been entrusted to his father. He even spent some time in jail as a teenager. He was addicted to drinking and was even found drunk with his friends the day after his mother died. Mueller’s life did not look like it would ever turn around. By God's Grace, however, Mueller came to a turning point.

George Mueller’s Conversion


A friend of Mueller’s, Beta, told Mueller about a meeting he was planning to attend. The meeting consisted of prayer, scripture reading, and singing hymns. For some strange reason, which could only be the Lord, Mueller had a desire to go too. Against Beta’s better judgment, he decided to take Mueller along. Upon entering the house, Mueller felt so out of place he apologized for being there. The response to his apology, however, left a deep impression on him, “Come as often as you please; house and heart are open to you.”[2] As the night continued, Mueller was left with many deep impressions. George Mueller’s own words describe the meeting for us.
“We sat down and sang a hymn. Then brother Kayser, afterwards a missionary in Africa in connection with the London missionary society, who was then living at Halle, fell on his knees and asked a blessing on our meeting. This kneeling down made a deep impression upon me; for I had never either seen any one on his knees, nor had I ever prayed myself on my knees. He then read a chapter and a printed sermon; for no regular meetings for expounding the scriptures were allowed in Prussia, except an ordained clergyman was present. At the close we sang another hymn, and then the master of the house prayed. Whilst he prayed my feeling was something like this: I could not pray as well, though I am much more learned than this illiterate man. The whole made a deep impression on me.”[3]

This deep impression led to his conversion. Mueller’s life was completely transformed.

Lessons learned From Muller’s Conversion 


Three lessons can be found in Mueller’s conversion story. The first is deals with grace. You are never too deep in sin to receive God’s grace. Please don’t say to yourself, “God could never forgive me because I’ve been too bad.” That is not how God works. Mueller’s story is just like the prodigal son. In every way, the son did not disserve to be forgiven; he squandered away all his father’s money and was left to tend pigs. Upon returning home, however, the father runs to embrace the son and rejoices that he has returned. The father then proceeds to clothe him and celebrate his return. The father knew the sins the man had committed, but he forgave his son anyway. God is our Father waiting for us to come to him, so he can embrace us. If you make the decision to turn to God, He will embrace you, no matter where you are or have been in the past.
            The second lesson from Mueller’s life is that a truly converted life, shows transformation. While Mueller didn’t walk a perfect Christian life right off the bat, there was evidence he was being transformed. He did not want to return to his old bad friends, but instead, returned almost daily to the house of the man who had prayed at the end of the meeting. He went there to study Scripture because he felt it would be too long to wait until the next Saturday. I would encourage each of you, who call yourselves Christians, to examine your lives. Is there evidence of transformation? Or does your life look just like your non-Christian neighbors? If we are truly saved, we should be different.
            The third and final lesson we find in Mueller’s conversion story is the idea of outreach. What do visitors think as they pass through our doors? Are they deeply moved by your hospitality, or are they even noticed? The man, who spoke the words of welcome to Mueller, made Mueller feel comfortable. Once he was comfortable, he began to engage himself and hear what the Holy Spirit was saying to him. Do not underestimate the power of a kind word, or an invitation to church. We need to be reaching out to our friends, so they can have the opportunity to hear the word of God.

George Mueller a Man of Faith

George Mueller was very serious about his conversion and his commitment. Within a few short weeks of conversion, he resolved to become a missionary. Over the course of the next few years, he became a missionary in Bristol, England, working as a preacher and reaching out to Jews.[4] Mueller was so confident the Lord would provide for him in this position, that he resolved to never again take any salary. I know what most of you are thinking right now. Was he crazy? The answer is no. He was totally sold out on the truth of Scripture, believing God will provide for his children. You now are thinking wow, that man has the gift of faith! Mueller, on the other hand, would disagree. In response to people putting him on a pedestal, Mueller writes, “Think not, dear reader, that I have the gift of faith, that is, that gift of which we read in 1 Corinthians 12:9.”[5] Instead, Muller believed he had the grace of faith. He explains it this way,
“The difference between the gift and the grace of faith seems to me this. According to the gift of faith I am able to do a thing, or believe that a thing will come to pass, the not doing of which, or the not believing of which would not be sin; according to the grace of faith I am able to do a thing, or believe that a thing will come to pass, respecting which I have the word of God as the ground to rest upon, and, therefore, the not doing it, or the not believing it would be sin. For instance, the gift of faith would be needed, to believe that a sick person should be restored again though there is no human probability: for there is no promise to that effect; the grace of faith is needed to believe that the Lord will give me the necessaries of life, if I first seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness: for there is a promise to that effect.”[6]

Muller feels everyone can have the same extraordinary things happen to them, if they trust God for their provisions. He was truly upset to see so many believers with such little faith in the provision of God. This idea that everyone with God’s help can have faith drove his ministry.[7] How many of us like to believe we cannot do as much as others for God because we do not have the gift of faith? As you listen to the rest of this message, I would like you to focus on how much this man did without the “gift” of faith.

Mueller’s Work among Orphans

While serving in his church, Mueller’s eyes were opened to the needs around him, orphans and believers with very little faith. Mueller’s idea to open his first orphan house came when he saw a little boy being taken to the poor house because of a lack of homes available to care for orphans. In England in 1834, there was only room for 3,600 orphans at established institutions. There were more than double that many orphan children under the age of eight in prison because of the lack of orphanages. Stepping out in faith with just enough money for him and his young family, he proposed that his church start an orphan House. They too saw the need and jumped on board. Mueller saw this as an opportunity to not only serve orphans, but also to encourage the saints by growing their faith. Referring to his first orphanage, Muller states,
“I know you can reach up and touch God when you pray. I’ve proved it to myself. It changed my life. And I want to convince other people. I think I can, if I can point to something God has done through prayer. Something real and tangible. If God can take me, a very poor man; if I can bring together twenty children in an orphanage; if He will give the strength to ask no man for anything- to ask only him for my money- then I will prove to some people anyway that God is still faithful today.”[8]

Mueller came up with three key goals, when he started his Orphan Houses. All of these goals reaffirm that Mueller wanted to encourage believers. In order of importance, the first goal was God would be glorified by showing other believers, it is possible to trust in God alone for every need. The second goal was to promote the spiritual welfare of the fatherless and motherless children. The final goal was to provide physically for the children. George Mueller successfully accomplished all three through prayer alone. Over the course of his time in orphan work, five orphan houses were opened, accommodating over 10,000 children who passed through the doors. Many of these children came to faith in Christ, while living in one of those houses. Not only were the goals for the orphans accomplished, but also the first goal, to encourage believers’ faith in God, was accomplished. George Mueller had an open book policy, meaning anyone could look into the finances of the orphan houses. If you were to take a look, you would find he received almost a million and a half pounds over the course of his life. We should remember that Mueller was living almost 200 years ago.

Conclusion

 Author, A.T. Pierson, described Muller, as someone who, “devised large and liberal things for the Lord's cause.”[9] I’m not going to try and convince you Mueller’s life was always easy, or he didn’t struggle with moments of lack of faith in the Lord, but I think we can agree, at the end of his life, it was clear God never stopped providing for Mueller. I would like to offer you one final question. What large and liberal things is God calling you to do? How is God calling you to help the orphan? Now you have seen how one very sinful man was made clean by the blood of Christ, and how he gave his life to fully trust in him. I hope you too are encouraged by Mueller’s life and how God can and will use you in mighty ways too; of course you have to allow him to do so.


[1] George Muller, How God answers prayer, iv.
[2] George Muller, A million and a Half in Answer to Prayer, 9.
[3] Ibid 9-10.
[4] Jennings, Look what God can Do!, 99.
[5] Mueller, Narrative, 1:302.
[6] Ibid 1:65.
[7] John Piper, “George Mueller’s Strategy for Showing God: Simplicity of Faith, Sacred Scripture, and Satisfaction in God” (paper presented at, Bethlehem Conference for Pastors Minneapolis, Minnesota, February 4, 2004).                                                                                                                                 
[8] Faith Coxe Bailey, George Mueller, (Chicago, IL: Moody Press, 1958), 85.
[9] Pierson, George Mueller of Bristol, 264.

Sunday, May 6, 2012

The Application

This week we received the application for our foster child. We must admit it is a bit scary filling it out. Thoughts and questions keep coming to mind like. Can we really do this? Will this application prove that we have what it takes? And of course... man I wish I hadn't got that traffic violation in college!
One section of the application is called our "Statement of Intent." We thought we would share our answers from this section with you. None of these questions are easy to put into words but here they are regardless.

Why do you wish to adopt or be a foster parent at this time?
We are pursuing adoption for several reasons. First off we are ready to begin our family. Laura will be finishing her masters in December and will only be part time working. Starting the adoption process now feels like good timing. The second reason we want to adopt is because we see a need. Since college both of us have researched and been educated on the number of orphans in the world. We want help a child find purpose and meaning when when they often don't have one because of their hard circumstances. As a family we have been praying for an opportunity to adopt since we were first married. We were not sure how we wanted to go about the adoption process but when we heard about the fost-adopt program we just felt like it was right for us. Being a family in church ministry we don't make a lot of money but we still feel we have so much to offer a child. God has richly blessed us and we want to share that with a child.

What do you have to offer in your home and life?
We believe we have so much to offer a child. First off a child will have a lot of people to love them. This of course starts with us but certainly doesn't end there. Any child in our home will also have a strong loving local community. We have a great church family supporting us. Finally, any child in our home will also be receiving a loving, accepting, supportive extended family. Both of us were blessed with strong committed families and parenting which has taught us to be caring nurturing people. We believe this is the type of environment we can offer a child. Both of us have been blessed with good educations and are able to support them academically. In addition Steve has a social sciences background with a degree in psychology to support a child emotionally as well. Above all else we are committed to offering a child or time and attention. They will be our number one priority. Whatever their interests and desires are will become ours as well.

What strengths and weaknesses do you recognize that you have as a parent?
We feel that we have many strengths between us that will make us a good parenting team. One of our strengths include good communication skills; knowing when to talk and more importantly when to listen. Another strength is the ability to work as a team. We compliment each other well in tasks. Another strength of ours is patience. We believe this will be very important when parenting a child who has likely not had boundaries before. We also have the gift of humor. Knowing when to laugh has gotten us through many challenges and surely will get us through many more. We also both have the gift of leadership. We see this as not only the ability to be in charge but also as the ability to motivate someone to reach and meet their goals. Another strength of ours is compassion. We have the ability to open up quickly and care deeply for others. Finally we are both energetic. This is surly a strength when working with children.

Two potential weaknesses we have are, we have never had a child in our home full time before and we're young. A lack of experience of course does give us a higher learning curve but we are no stranger to babies, children, and teens. Steve has worked as a youth minister for three years while Laura has worked as a nanny and childcare worker for children ages 1-12 and as youth helper. So while we have never had a child in our home full time before we feel we are up to the challenge. We also feel that while our age can be a potential weakness (Steve will be 25 in November and Laura 24 in July) it will also give us an advantage in that we will have lots of energy to give.

We will be submitting our application within the next week from which we will then have a face to face one on one meeting with our social worker Rolf. Please be in prayer for us as we fill out the remainder of our application and for those of who will be receiving and reading it. We are so thankful to know we have so many people loving and supporting us as we journey through this process.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

The Adventures of Foster Care Part 2

The evening before our foster care information meeting Steve suggested we we watch a sermon on adoption to get us pumped up. He was right It did pump us up. (If you're interested in watching it you can find the link here) We also spent time praying over what the next semester would look like as we began this process.

Tuesday night could not come fast enough as I began my day of going through the normal tasks of class, lunch, picking up the kids I babysit for and shuffling them to activities. As time ticked off the clock I realized my boss was going to come home late and I started to panic. We had already waited 3 months to go to a meeting that would work for us. I didn't want to wait another 3! Finally my boss came home and I rushed out the door with a pack of fruit gummies for dinner. Next stop was picking up Steve from work. With about 15 minutes to spare we found ourselves pulling up to what looked like a low income neighborhood in San Rafael. The reality of what was about to happen started to hit. This night would mark the turning point of our family growing from 2 to 3. I'm not sure if I was outwardly smiling but my heart sure was.

We quickly found the meeting room and were greeted by a sweet lady named Cindy. Cindy is a social worker in our county that helps potential foster parents become certified and then helps to place children in their homes. Three other ladies were in our meeting. After introductions we learned that one was married and also looking into the fost-adopt program while the other two were single and looking to get certified to provide foster care. The presentation informed us that even here in one of the wealthiest counties in America there are on average 70-90 children in foster care. They come from all different backgrounds but most of them have undergone some type of abuse.

Cindy explained in detail the fost-adopt program for us. Children are assessed when they come into the system on their probability of being reunited with their family. Since that is the ultimate goal of foster care. If their prospects are not likely then they give the next of kin an opportunity to pursue adoption. If the next of kin is unable then that is where we come in. They place a child with us and when they come up for adoption we get the opportunity to pursue that adoption first. There is some risk involved with the child being able to reunite with their family. The great thing about this program, however, is that the state will pay for all court fees. We are also given the chance to apply for financial assistance to be given to the child until they turn 18.

After Cindy told us what we could expect as foster parents and how to apply we were blessed to hear from a current foster parent. Claudia has fostered over 90 children in 15 years of her family foster parenting. She told us of the trials but overwhelming joys of the opportunity. It was such a great encouragement.

We ended the meeting with filling out some paperwork to take the next step. Because Steve and I are interested in the fost-adopt program our journey will look a little different than the normal foster care process. We will also be working with a man named Rolph. He does the northern California adoptions and will help us match with a child.

We are looking at an age range of 0-12. I know this may seam strange to you but that is where we feel God leading us. We have no preference on girls boys or race. We are shooting for a child to be with us in January or February of next year after I graduate.

So that's kind of where we're at right now. We will keep you all posted as we go through the process. Please be praying for us, Cindy, Rolph and of course the child God is leading us to. We know that this is all in his hands.